Let's get real for a second.

You poured your heart into your book. You spent months, maybe years, writing, editing, and perfecting every word. You finally hit publish, and then... crickets. The sales trickle in slower than you imagined. You check your dashboard obsessively. You compare yourself to other authors. And that voice in your head starts whispering: "Maybe my book isn't good enough. Maybe I'm not good enough."

Stop right there.

I need you to hear this, and I need you to really let it sink in: Low book sales do not define you.

They don't define your worth as a writer. They don't define the quality of your story. And they sure as hell don't mean your book doesn't matter.

The Real Reason Your Book Isn't Selling (Hint: It's Not You)

Here's what nobody tells you when you're starting out as an indie author: book sales are about visibility, timing, access, and reach, not worth or quality.

Let me say that again for the people in the back: Your sales numbers are a reflection of your marketing reach, not your talent.

Think about it. If you write the most beautiful, transformative book in the world but only three people know it exists, how many copies are you going to sell? Exactly.

Low sales mean one of a few things:

• Your book hasn't reached the right readers yet
• Your marketing strategy needs some fine-tuning
• The timing isn't quite right (and yes, timing matters more than we like to admit)
• You're still building your author platform and reader community

Notice what's NOT on that list? The quality of your writing. The value of your story. Your worth as an author.

Publishing Is an Act of Radical Bravery

Let's talk about what you DID accomplish by publishing your book.

You took an idea: something that lived inside your head and your heart: and you turned it into something real. Something tangible. Something that exists in the world now, separate from you.

Do you have any idea how brave that is?

Most people spend their entire lives talking about writing a book. You actually did it. You sat down, day after day, and you did the work. You wrestled with plot holes and character arcs. You stared at blank pages and filled them anyway. You edited until your eyes crossed. You navigated the technical nightmare that is self-publishing.

And then: here's the really vulnerable part: you put your work out into the world knowing it might be criticized. Knowing it might be ignored. Knowing you were opening yourself up to judgment.

That takes guts.

Publishing a book is an act of vulnerability that most people will never understand. You're not just sharing words on a page: you're sharing pieces of yourself. Your experiences. Your worldview. Your creativity. Your truth.

So before you beat yourself up about sales numbers, take a moment to acknowledge what you've already accomplished. You're published. You're an author. That matters.

Your Story Is a Seed (And Seeds Take Time to Grow)

One of my favorite metaphors for books is that they're like seeds.

When you plant a seed in the ground, you don't see results immediately. The seed sits in the dark soil, breaking down, sending out tiny roots that you can't see. For weeks, maybe months, it looks like nothing is happening. But underground, beneath the surface where you can't measure or observe it, growth is happening.

Then one day, a tiny green shoot breaks through the soil. And eventually, with time and nurturing, that seed becomes a tree.

Your book is that seed.

Just because you can't see the impact right now doesn't mean it isn't happening. Maybe someone read your book six months ago, and it planted an idea that they're only now acting on. Maybe a reader recommended it to a friend who will recommend it to another friend. Maybe your book is sitting on someone's nightstand right now, waiting for the exact moment when they need your story most.

Stories grow quietly before they become visible.

Some books take off immediately. Others build momentum slowly over years. Neither path is better or worse: they're just different. And honestly? The slow-burn books often have the most dedicated, passionate reader communities because those readers found the book organically, at exactly the right time in their lives.

Your book is out there doing its work. Trust that.

The Growth That Actually Matters

Here's what I want you to focus on instead of sales numbers: Who did you become by writing this book?

Think about the skills you developed. The discipline you built. The confidence you gained by finishing something big and putting it out into the world. The connections you made with other authors and readers. The lessons you learned about storytelling, publishing, and marketing.

That growth? That's yours to keep, regardless of how many copies you sell.

Every book you write makes you a better writer. Every marketing experiment teaches you something new about reaching readers. Every review: good or bad: gives you insight into how your work lands with different audiences.

You're not just building a book; you're building a career, a platform, and a body of work that will compound over time.

The author who publishes one book and gives up because sales were slow? They never find out what would have happened with book two, or three, or ten. But the author who keeps writing, keeps learning, keeps connecting with readers? That author builds something sustainable.

This isn't a sprint. It's a marathon. And you're in it for the long game.

Your New Mantra: "Low Book Sales Do Not Define Me"

I want you to say this out loud with me: "Low book sales do not define me."

Say it again. Mean it.

Because here's the truth: You are so much more than a number on a sales dashboard. You're a storyteller. A creator. Someone brave enough to share their voice with the world.

Your worth isn't measured in Amazon rankings or Goodreads ratings. It's measured in the courage it took to write the book in the first place. In the growth you experienced along the way. In the impact your story will have on the readers who need it: even if that's ten readers instead of ten thousand.

Every reader counts. Every review matters. Every person whose life is touched by your words is proof that your story has value.

So when you're tempted to spiral into self-doubt because your sales aren't where you want them to be, come back to this affirmation. Remind yourself of what's true: Your book matters. Your story matters. You matter.

And then get back to work: not because you need to prove anything, but because you have more stories to tell and readers who need to hear them.

What's Next?

If you haven't already, watch the full episode where I dig deeper into this topic: https://youtu.be/4TzFeN2PaME

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Remember: You're not alone in this journey. Your story matters. Keep writing. Keep publishing. Keep believing in the power of your words.

Now go make some magic happen. ✨